Wearing J.O.A. top, Levi’s, vintage head scarf & Ariel Gordon hoops
My confidence is always wavering—I’m pretty sure it’s just part of human nature. Some days I’m feeling great about myself, and the next I can feel totally blahhhh. But as I’ve gotten older, I’ve (thankfully!) found certain things that leave me feeling secure and happy with myself.
Here are 15 ways to boost your confidence instantly when you need it most:
- Develop positive mantras.
- Set a goal and accomplish it. No matter how small, getting something done will put you in a better headspace instantly. For me, that’s usually getting some work accomplished or running errands that have been on my list a little too long.
- Sweat! Your endorphins will be high and you’ll feel better about yourself instantly.
- Put on rap. It’s science, promise!
- Buy a new bra. Treating yourself to one that actually fits will not only be refreshing but it’ll make your clothes look better.
- Learn something new. Being smart is a sure way to feel more self-assured in life.
- Put on makeup. Even if it’s just concealer and a swipe of mascara, let your natural beauty come through with a little help from products.
- Call someone who loves you.
- Throw on your favorite outfit. Whether it’s a pretty dress or yoga pants that make your booty look cute, wear what feels good.
- Stretch it out. After a workout, or even without one, get your body loose. There’s something about feeling flexible and being able to touch my toes that makes me feel good. Anyone else?
- Cook a yummy, healthy meal. Not only will you feel great after killing the recipe, but healthy food can actually make you feel happier.
- Treat yourself to a face mask. Your skin will be glowy and gorgeous after!
- Log off of social media for the day. Seeing all the perfect moments on Instagram can be a downer when you aren’t feeling your best.
- Search motivational quotes on Pinterest and save your favorites to look at whenever you need a boost. Here are some that I love!
- Do something kind for someone else.
Feeling confident yet?!
15 comments
I did not know about rap… I don’t really like the music genre though, haha, too hardcore for the Taylor Swift-loving me! Positive mantras definitely really help for me.
Charmaine Ng | Architecture & Lifestyle Blog
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I love this and these tips! Great ways to stay confident and good about yourself!
Briana
http://beyoutifulbrunette.blogspot.com/
These are great.. it’s quite easy to increase your confidence but it’s something that you have to work on daily!
http://thedianaedition.com
Such an inspiring post 🙂
xx
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So wise! Add in being content with our decor and it’s a complete list.-Laurel Bledsoe
I love this post! When I need a little confidence boost I like to put on red lipstick!
-Sisi
http://www.modernbeautygirl.com
Thank you for this post, reading this boost my confidence and positivity! 🙂
VIOLA WIN | Beauty & Fashion Blog
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I love this post! Expecially #4 put on Rap! My husband and I laughed out loud and totally agreed haha!
Love it dear! Clothes, makeup and a photo session boost my confidence! xoxo
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If that is you in the picture, you have every reason to be confident 7/24.
Thanks for these wonderful tips! Confidence is something I definitely struggled with for years. I love how much difference simple thoughts and actions can make!
I hope you’ve had a wonderful Sunday,
Michael
https://www.mileinmyglasses.co.uk
I love this! I already do most of these things and they really do being up your self-esteem! Great post <3
Great advice–a gal after my own heart!
Lovely tips, I have always had problems with my self-esteem and now I feel like treating myself a face mask! Love your blog <3
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Great post. Some helpful tips here!